On the first point, I sure hope not! If I've ever done that to anyone, it's usually because of a declaration of what can't be done with hand tools without having any experience using the hand tools (and often coming from people new enough to not have done much with the power tools either - parroting something they've read or heard from a guru in older writings or youtube).
It seems that this thread has also made a tilt toward making the resawing out as being difficult or needing kerfs - it doesn't, but you made a good point elsewhere - if seeing the line is a problem, they can be useful for that. A very dark marked line and cutting aside of the line so that the line thickness doesn't matter is good policy.
And generally, if we're resawing decent stock, there's perceptible tension, but it doesn't result in more than routine prep of the resawn piece. A lot of pop-up videos on YT show people resawing cheap pine so they can make it look fast and avoid the reality of resawing hardwoods, but white pine here, even when it's clear and quartered, often cups.
having resawn a large amount of cherry and a whole bunch of guitar blanks (some flatsawn, mostly quartered), I've never lost either side of the stock. Working by hand generally does provide more time to consider stock and makes it easier to not make it a pain in the rear separate step because you know you'll be working the stock by hand and subpar stuff is a bigger nuisance.
In the event that something thin would actually "double cup", it would be not too difficult to rip it down the center carefully, let it settle, flatten the two halves and match plane the inside edges and glue it back together without obvious visual evidence that any such thing was done.