And there you have it, in a nutshell. What you are led to believe is not the same as what people outside of the western world are led to believe. You, I presume, assume that everything you have been told MUST be true, so anything that goes against that narrative must, by definition, be false.
What if it isn't?
Is this a war between Russia and the Ukraine, or is this actually a civil war between parts of what used to be the Ukraine, with Russia and the West fighting proxy war on Ukrainian ground? Or, is it an existential war between the Golden Billion who hold all the wealth, and the other 7 plus billion who are kept in poverty for the exclusive benefit of the "wealthy" nations? All are possibilities, and perhaps all are true.
Things are not as they seem. The smug certainty that Russia is finished financially seems not to be based in reality. The smug certainty that all russian military are incompetent and all russian equipment is useless is also not based in reality. The ukrainian army in 2022 was the finest, best trained army that NATO could field, and it was destroyed by the Russians. The ukrainians then fielded a sedond army, which was also destroyed by the russians. They are now on their third army, which appears to have been explosively disassembled in Kursk, of all places (do you know your history?) Each time this happens, NATO has less equipment to send. All the old soviet kit is long gone from the ex soviet countries. All the old western kit is now gone. The shiny new kit purportedly for the defence of NATO countries is seriously depleted, and NATO countries are now whining about not being able to supply more.
NATOs best, shiniest new wonder-weapons cannot be launched by Ukrainian technicians, and use NATO real-time targeting information inputted by NATO technicians. At what point will you be forced to admit that this is a NATO war against Russia? If it's perfectly right and proper for NATO operatives to kill Russians, should it not also be perfectly right and proper for Russians to kill NATO servicemen, (and civilians too, it's their war as well, don't forget)? If not, why not?
Does anyone have a good explanation as to why Russia wants to expand its empire? They have the largest country in the world, with the most resources. They have so much excess land that they give it away, free of charge, to anyone who wants to become a farmer. What possible reason do they have to want to invade and occupy all of western Europe, or even some of it? They don't have the manpower for it - it would be an impossible task, and western Europe doesn't have sufficient wealth or natural resources to make it a viable proposition. Europe is utterly indebted and broke. Russia wants to sell oil and gas to Europe, not conquer and pay for it. So why has Russia invaded the Ukraine? What could the reason be, if it isn't for a land grab? Defence of ethnic russians and Mother Russia, perhaps?
Defence against whom?