@Mjward it is experiences like yours that give me nightmares when getting someone in to do a job. I’ve reached the age now where more jobs are falling in to the “too heavy” for me category pushing me to get someone else in.
My daughter is having a new bathroom and kitchen fitted. She rents the house from me so I’m paying for the work. The kitchen is a father daughter activity, she is pretty handy, but my wife vetoed me doing the bathroom because of the weight of the bath. I was up for it anyway but do tend to underestimate the effort involved. We went out for multiple quotes with people we know and recommendations from friends. We only had one quote back. After I stemmed the flow of blood from my nose we went with the one quote we had. The trepidation in the lead up to the start of the work was extreme. However they turned up bang on time. I was there to meet them. Turns out the builder is a subcontractor rather than a one man band, I should have found that out at the quote stage. The two guys who turned up were absolutely great. They had only had a general outline of what they were supposed to do from the ‘boss’ but a couple minutes of chatting and pointing later they certainly settled my concerns. The job is due to finish this Friday and despite the electrician being a no show for the first three days, it was very difficult not to jump in and do that myself, it is going to finish on schedule. On top of that because the electrician didn’t turn up the two guys doing the bulk of the job got board on one of the days so knocked the tiles off of the kitchen wall, which was supposed to have been one of my daughter’s contribution to the kitchen job. I strongly suspect feebly waving a hammer and chisel while batting eyelashes contributed to this. The plasterer also agreed a cash price to plaster the kitchen so that was a real win. There are only two jobs I don’t like and that’s plastering and painting…
So far all going very well, of course there is the inevitable “I would have done that differently” aspects but a very positive experience overall.
There are still good trades out there. The challenge as so clearly shown in this thread is how to find them. My whole job here was basically a bit of a flyer with review information from the web. Looks like the reviews we read were genuine but we had to take it all on faith at the start.