Language is just words but things go wrong when you use words in a way that conflicts with reality. A good example is some of the nonsense now being used like the NHS with " for people who bleed " rather than accept that it is only females that menstruate. You cannot change facts or reality by using different language, how can anyone be gender neutral, ever since we lived in caves there has been boys and girls, go right back to day one we had Adam & Eve so like it or not you are what you are and if you have doubts then look elsewhere for the root cause of the issue, just like cancer ignore it at your peril.