kasandrich
Established Member
Obviously all traces of whatever it was have gone including the threadon another forum, but I cannot understand how a thread on another forum can cause upset on this forum and someone leaving.
I have a lot of experience of forums from both sides of the fence and sometimes you need to be a bit thick skinned, as a moderator or administrator, sometimes the only course of action is to delete an entire thread, even if that means blatting everything that someone you agree with has to say.
At the end of the day as Chems said, if maybe a little undelicately, this forum is bigger than any individual on here, and the loss of any individual/s is not really going to affect the operation of the forums. So if the dramatic leavings we have seen are an attempt at throwing the forums into turmoil, forget it, it isn't going to happen, so you may as well thicken up your skin a bit, accept that things are not always going to be perfectly in alignment with the way you would like them, and stick around and enjoy.
I have a lot of experience of forums from both sides of the fence and sometimes you need to be a bit thick skinned, as a moderator or administrator, sometimes the only course of action is to delete an entire thread, even if that means blatting everything that someone you agree with has to say.
At the end of the day as Chems said, if maybe a little undelicately, this forum is bigger than any individual on here, and the loss of any individual/s is not really going to affect the operation of the forums. So if the dramatic leavings we have seen are an attempt at throwing the forums into turmoil, forget it, it isn't going to happen, so you may as well thicken up your skin a bit, accept that things are not always going to be perfectly in alignment with the way you would like them, and stick around and enjoy.