Maybe look for a different supplier ?
I have had a bench which used 2 thicknesses of 18mm ply for the top. That makes a strong bench. I wanted to be able to put dog holes along the front edge so I could push in dogs to make a planing stop or to clamp stuff between a fixed dog and a sideways clamp.
I chose a length of maple too because it is tough and the holes can be drilled very cleanly.
Mine was full thickness (so your 36mm and maybe 80mm wide).
I screwed down into the support, not back into the edge of the ply.
It was wide enough that I could fix a big record vice under it.
The front mounting holes of the vice were bolted all the way through the maple and the bold head counterbored to sit below the surface.
The back mounting holes of the vice were bolted through what will be your MDF, again recessed just enough that the bolt heads are below the surface.
You need a spacer between so that the vice sits low enough that it's top edge is below the surface of your bench.
These clamps are nice for a setup with dogs for clamping.
They can be used with but don't need through holes.
They have a shortish clamp range but well made.
Piher also make a good version and there are cheaper Chinese ones.
Ordinary festool MFT clamping methods only work on single thickness worktops and traditional holdfasts that do work great on thick bench tops need solid wood tops not ply or MDF