First of all you need to walk around your house, new moisture meter in hand jabbing it into random wooden objects like your dining table, kitchen units and internal doors etc, it might end up looking like your house has woodworm but at least you will have established what MC you are aiming for.
Next bring the wood into the house and store it somewhere (apparently under the bed is a popular place) on laths so air can get around it. Check the MC weekly until it's the same as your dining table etc then it's ready to use
I try to store wood that's going to be used internally in my house for at least a couple of weeks before I use it but the longer the better. It's also important to try and allow for wood movement in the design of what you are making.
I do joinery for a living and encourage the use of MDF whenever possible, it's much less hassle