Jacob, this is almost turning into folly. I make tools. In the last week, I've made ten chisels. I flatten them by hand. If your way was better, I'd do it. It's find for you to recommend things other than I recommend, but people following your advice will be going backwards. It's possible for them to use the setup that I have and flatten a plane like you're showing to within a couple of thousandths in about 5 minutes. It's possible to grind the back of an iron without dubbing, or grind a bevel flat if desirable on the al-ox. The al-ox dulls but the grit remains large dull large grit is faster than crushed small grit.
You're suffering from lack of exposure, and without going bonkers into the tiny details, I've literally tried all of the aluminas narrowing down what really works best. The friable aluminas aren't great for this, even though they're far better on a high speed belt machine. I spend appreciable amounts of time doing this, not once in a while partial flattening of an old plane.
if you look over toward the nelson plane thread, you can see the pitting in the iron. I removed all of it and had an iron flat enough for an india stone in 5 minutes.
I can't stop people from taking your advice (nor is it my place). I can tell you that my method is definitively better ,and the difference between you and me is that I've probably done your method more than you have, but I've done my method dozens of times more. If you were at a bench next to me measured both in time and to a standard, you'd fare poorly.
If you and I tried to do something fitting or making a door on a house, I'd fare poorly. But I'm smart enough not to push there.