Hullo Chris,
It sounds like your son is going to the sort of school that I (and many others of my generation) went to back in the 1950s. Great! From all that I've heard that doesn't happen much in UK these days, so as I think that UK needs more "technicians", and as I firmly believe that whatever he ends up doing for a technical career, that all starts from basic hand skills, I find it great that you want to encourage him. Well done Sir.
Now to the "easy" bit. Any ideas about what he wants to make? Are we talking sheet metal work here, or more "solid" work?
To do anything in metal he needs access to a basic set of hand tools, such as measuring and marking out equipment, hack saws, files, drills, etc. And I assume that through you he already has access to basic hand tools such as screwdrivers, spanners, pliers, etc, right?
So let us know what ideas he (you?) have about what to make and there are loads of us here who'll be pleased to help.
Meantime, think about materials and reading.
For materials some skip diving is called for, and just about "any old bits of metal" will do. This can add difficulties with "unknown lumps" but also broadens the experience quickly. Plus some suppliers - I suggest those who cater for the model engineering fraternity, and you'll find several listed in the sticky at the top of the General Metal Working section of this Forum.
For books, there are the local library and/or Amazon, and/or any SH bookshops if you have any nearby. Personally I highly recommend these books:
"Metalworking Tools and Techniques" by Stan Bray, ISBN 1-86126-573-5. As the name suggests, a good all round intro, and full of practical hints and tips, as well as good ideas on tools.
"Model Engineering - a foundation course" by Peter Wright, ISBN 1-85486-152-2. As you'd expect, a lot of information on lathes and turning, but even if he doesn't lean that way/funds don't permit, a lot of good basic stuff in there too.
"Making Woodwork Aids & Devices" by Robert Wearing, ISBN 0-00-412644-0. If he's not sure of what he wants to make, and as you're a wood worker, I'll bet you'll find a lot of bits and pieces in this book that you could use and he'd like to have a bash at making!
To that I'd add a subscription to the mag "Model Engineer's Workshop" (rather than the original "Model Engineer" mag) The former has a lot more general info. But both have lots of small ads by suppliers of all sorts, plus private sales of all sorts of useful tools, kits, materials, etc.
I hope that above is enough to start you both off. Come back with any more Qs, and especially when he's decided what he wants to make.
Good luck to you both and HTH.