Jacob, Pete,
In an attempt to bring this discussion to a conclusion... It's easy to describe something as parallel to something else and overlook the fact that there are three different planes (X, Y and Z) to think about. If you don't draw a diagram or write very carefully, you can be thinking of one relationship in which a surface or edge is parallel to another but your audience can be thinking of different surfaces or edges which are not parallel.
In use, the sticks are placed parallel to the ends of the board when viewed from above.
They are then looked at horizontally.
Provided that both sticks are parallel to each other when viewed from above, they could be different heights. In this case, their upper surfaces would not be parallel with the top surface of the board. That wouldn't matter, as you would actually be looking at their top front edges, which would lie on a plane, if the board was flat. This plane would be sloping, relative to the board surface.
If the sticks are the same height, it still works, and the imagined plane on which the top front edges lie is parallel to the board. The upper surfaces of the sticks are also on this plane.
Having them the same height means that if you place them slightly out of parallel to each other when seen from above, it doesn't matter. They will still look parallel. They aren't, but the effect of one end being nearer and the other end being further away is trivial on the scale of a normal workpiece.
So, mismatched sticks could work but would be harder to use.
I hope that helps. It took a long time to type and I want to go and do some woodwork now.
