Hi
dermot.
Sorry to hear your not getting on well using the jigs you have.
I would have second (& third) thoughts about buying a Tormek if it is only because you can't get on with the jigs you have.
Even using the Tormek you could easily end up with a pointed gouge. I can state now (100%) it is not the jigs it is your technique. No jig that is made will give you the correct profile without some operator input. ie - Knowing what profile you are shaping, and where to remove the metal, and it is operator error that is causing your problem.
The two prime examples of operator error is a pointed gouge, or a point on each side of the nose.
As with all things it would be easier to see what you are doing to get the shape you are. But I reckon you are being a bit too heavy handed, and removing too much metal from the sides. I presume you are trying to get a long grind profile. In which case you should slowly shape the side wings with the gouge at about 75 - 80deg or so across the edge of the wheel. The closer you get to 90deg the longer the wing. These are the hardest bits to get right as you have so much metal to remove initially.
Once you have the wings shaped to your satisfaction you can then move onto blending the nose in with the wings, you do this very - very gently. It is too easy to remove too much steel.
If you have done this correctly you should have a rough edge all round the wings and nose, now you slowly and gently sweep the profile from wing edge to wing edge in one sweep until you have a consistent bevel.
Believe me it is quite easy once you have seen it done, or had a bit of practice.
One aid you could try is
one of these profiles. You buy the one which has the profile you want, put it into your jig and move the end on a stationary wheel and watch that the ground edge moves on the wheel surface correctly. Replace the profile with your gouge at the same settings and shape slowly while comparing your grind with the bought one
Good luck which ever way you go.