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Benchwayze":109u399d said:All those years went into learning your stuff and building up a good reputation Bob. Now it's paying off.
Deservedly so. :wink:
John (hammer)
Hi John
I didn't want to come across as "blase" because you're right, it was bloody hard work and we didn't have a holiday or even a weekend away for the first 9 years.
Not that we couldn't afford to do so but because my state of mind was that I wanted to maximise every oportunity and had got into the habit of working a 60 - 70 hour week.
It was my son and daughter who said that my wife deserved some respite, and I'll always be grateful to them for saying so.
Since then we take several holidays a year and I've eased back considerably otherwise I may have damaged our relationship.
I had managed 3 different companies prior to going on my own and it was bloody hard to give up the company BMW, expense allowance, pension and a good salary to venture into the unknown. (The company went bust which forced my decision but I'd had offers from the competition).
I wouldn't go back at any price to the situation where however high you are in a company, you're disposable and only as good as yesterdays results!
The guys who said loneliness is a shock are spot on. I had 23 staff and found it difficult at first but I'm now at the stage where I refuse to accept work from anyone I don't like or who hasn't been recommended and most of my customers have become friends. Oh - and I won't travel more than 20 miles to a job either - had enough of 30,000 miles a year as a manager.
The point I was trying to make was that I firmly believe that work is still out there and you can get a premium for it if you have established a decent reputation and are honest. If I don't want a job, I say so and don't just overprice or ignore it. People respect that and word gets around. I refused a large extension last year but picked up 2 jobs from one of his mates because I'd been upfront though I wasn't told until later. They were farmers and a close comunity - you just never know.
I also occasionally do small "favours" for regulars and that means I almost always get the paying jobs from them, often without quoting prices.
It's amazing how much customers value being able to leave keys to their home safe in the knowledge that all will be well when they return. I could go on and on (already have I think).
cheers
Bob