Roger,
I think you might be looking for the holy grail! As you say compressor and quiet don't usually go together. I currently have several compressors, a SIP 50ltr with a vertical receiver which is great on the space saving aspect having a very small footprint, but Jesus Christ is it loud! It screams like a banshee. That 24ltr Aldi special was quite quiet, relative to the SIP, however it's obviously built to a price and has fittings made of cream cheese, it's currently damaged beyond economical repair after I dropped something on it and sheared off the air outlet fittings. The 6ltr Axminster is a nice little unit, oil lubricated, again relative to the SIP is reasonably quiet, it's only down side for me was its weight, it's quite hefty and I got fed up lugging it from the van to jobs so replaced it with the Stanley Waka mentioned above. I really wasn't expecting much from this little unit but having had it for about a year now I am very impressed with it. It gets used most days although not on an industrial scale, with a brad nailer or headless pinner and so far has been faultless and it's light.
I was going to build a sound insulated box for the SIP but as we are looking to move house this year all shop projects are on hold. I think once we have moved I will be looking for a larger quieter machine also, I believe that the belt driven type with V cylinders are better in this respect, I worked alongside a chap a week or so ago who was running a nail gun off a SIP industrial size unit that must have been 100+ litres, it was ridiculously big but very quiet. Axminster do a range of more modestly sized belt driven units, if you could get to one of their stores I'm sure they would fire them up and let you see how load they are. A larger receiver will obviously need to re-charge less often when used with low consumption tools such as nailers etc.
Probably all stuff you already know but hope it's some help
Cheers
Richard