There are plenty of good tool lists in the old woodworking manuals. Try Modern Cabinet Work by Wells & Hooper (modern in this case being the early 1900's). None of the lists you'll find will delight those who thrive on redundancy -- several smoothers, many sets of chisels, lots and lots of saws whose conformation and function are either identical or so close as to be essentially meaningless.
One can reconcile these lists with their own purchasing habits, philosophy, etc. or ignore them altogether.
To be clear, these lists are found in woodworking manuals and not collector's guides. If you assembled the kit of tools recommended in these books you presumably would have everything you need to build, but not necessarily embellish, furniture -- carving kit and moulding planes are not covered in the basic kit of tools but in the chapters on carving and making mouldings if the book includes this information. A kit for a joiner might vary slightly - especially somebody heavily involved in making windows, doors, and stairs.
There really is no mystery here and any quibbles, minor (or should be). Assembling a kit of tools for making furniture is not a process imbued with a lot of whimsy, no matter how much somebody wishes it were so.
If buying tools scratches some other itch beyond what you need to build the projects you have in mind, then it's a matter of something else, essentially inexplicable taste, "I like chocolate and you like vanilla." You'll find no shortage of people on woodworking forums ready to enable and encourage this sort of thing. There's nothing necessarily wrong with it, people 'collect' lots of things.
Speaking for myself and my own situation, if I decided to collect plumber's tools I fear somebody in my family would expect me to fix a leaking pipe someday. They would be sorely disappointed! Mere ownership of the tools does not a plumber make.