greybeard
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Hmm, yes, well - also feeling reluctant without knowing why - another life crossroads approaching shortly? Maybe.
OK............
Left school at 18 with absolutely no idea as to what I wanted to do/be, having spent the previous 7 years playing sport to my hearts content.
The only job offers came for accounting/office admin type roles, so I did that off and on for about 12 years.
Left my first real company after about 4 years, before they 'let me go', cos they were letting everyone go - 3,500 staff to about 1,000 in 15 months I think - all a bit hazy now!
From private to public employer, thinking salvation lay that way. Totally bored, aimless, left after 12 months.
And then the slide/merry-go-round/fun started - still absolutely no idea what to do. Jobs and addresses, 8 or 9 of each in about 3 years - offices, factories, door-to-door, deliveries, etc etc.
Temping, still lost really, back with long-suffering parents by then, and met my partner. Never thought I'd see it, let alone say it, but without her I'd probably still be doing the same aimless wandering stuff.
With her?.....kids (ha!! kids! - youngest is 26 already!!)(but they're still 'the kids' of course!), one company for 10 years then redundant, current company 20 years but I think that's about to finish too - lots of ominous warning signs!
DIY has always been a pleasure, I get a buzz from it. I've been making 'stuff' from day one; from arty bookshelves (planks with bricks!) to Captains' bunks (something of everything in them!). And quite a lot of painting papering plumbing wiring etc etc over the years too.
The wood thing was fired by Grandpa gawd knows how many years ago, I must have been about three I think - making fences for my farm! A few years later I remember we (even now I kid myself it was 'we'!! What a Grandpa!) built a cedar (?) greenhouse one summer - seemed almost as big as the house!
Bought the wood from a house being knocked down about a street away, and carried it home somehow - memory fails me! I think it took us about 20 journeys. Balanced on an old pram?, or bike? Probably - he was a very practical guy! Think I was 8 that year, so he must have been in his late 70's. Hold this, cut that, plane t'other, tenons, pegs, screws - then all the glazing! Smelt of putty for months! Buckets of Red Lead! (? is that a preservative?).
Then further - gently - encouraged by Dad who was far too finicky for a moody teenager who was in a hurry to get bored again, but he never actually said that, just the odd sigh now and then (amazing what you realise looking back?!).
And it really took my taken-for-granted-now stability to give me the time and space to pick up the tools for fun and interest (those earlier years with one income and 3 kids didn't leave much time/money for woody fun!).
And of course a steady income to fund it a bit! Did an OU degree, with the kids help of course, all enjoyed the experiments! Sort of in IT.
And that's what's been paying the bills these last 25 years or so. It gives me quite a lot of satisfaction, but these days it's probably more the people side of it than getting systems right. I know I can do the latter, that's what I get paid for! But it's the pleasure from seeing new users getting what they want from the process.
Never wanted the chairmans job, so just as well I was never offered it!
Funny old game, this life thing. Glad I found out about wood early on though!
OK............
Left school at 18 with absolutely no idea as to what I wanted to do/be, having spent the previous 7 years playing sport to my hearts content.
The only job offers came for accounting/office admin type roles, so I did that off and on for about 12 years.
Left my first real company after about 4 years, before they 'let me go', cos they were letting everyone go - 3,500 staff to about 1,000 in 15 months I think - all a bit hazy now!
From private to public employer, thinking salvation lay that way. Totally bored, aimless, left after 12 months.
And then the slide/merry-go-round/fun started - still absolutely no idea what to do. Jobs and addresses, 8 or 9 of each in about 3 years - offices, factories, door-to-door, deliveries, etc etc.
Temping, still lost really, back with long-suffering parents by then, and met my partner. Never thought I'd see it, let alone say it, but without her I'd probably still be doing the same aimless wandering stuff.
With her?.....kids (ha!! kids! - youngest is 26 already!!)(but they're still 'the kids' of course!), one company for 10 years then redundant, current company 20 years but I think that's about to finish too - lots of ominous warning signs!
DIY has always been a pleasure, I get a buzz from it. I've been making 'stuff' from day one; from arty bookshelves (planks with bricks!) to Captains' bunks (something of everything in them!). And quite a lot of painting papering plumbing wiring etc etc over the years too.
The wood thing was fired by Grandpa gawd knows how many years ago, I must have been about three I think - making fences for my farm! A few years later I remember we (even now I kid myself it was 'we'!! What a Grandpa!) built a cedar (?) greenhouse one summer - seemed almost as big as the house!
Bought the wood from a house being knocked down about a street away, and carried it home somehow - memory fails me! I think it took us about 20 journeys. Balanced on an old pram?, or bike? Probably - he was a very practical guy! Think I was 8 that year, so he must have been in his late 70's. Hold this, cut that, plane t'other, tenons, pegs, screws - then all the glazing! Smelt of putty for months! Buckets of Red Lead! (? is that a preservative?).
Then further - gently - encouraged by Dad who was far too finicky for a moody teenager who was in a hurry to get bored again, but he never actually said that, just the odd sigh now and then (amazing what you realise looking back?!).
And it really took my taken-for-granted-now stability to give me the time and space to pick up the tools for fun and interest (those earlier years with one income and 3 kids didn't leave much time/money for woody fun!).
And of course a steady income to fund it a bit! Did an OU degree, with the kids help of course, all enjoyed the experiments! Sort of in IT.
And that's what's been paying the bills these last 25 years or so. It gives me quite a lot of satisfaction, but these days it's probably more the people side of it than getting systems right. I know I can do the latter, that's what I get paid for! But it's the pleasure from seeing new users getting what they want from the process.
Never wanted the chairmans job, so just as well I was never offered it!
Funny old game, this life thing. Glad I found out about wood early on though!