Reviving old threads seems to trigger people, sometimes understandable if it's a general topic that gets traversed all the time. Sometimes it's really stupid, when there is an esoteric thread (on an already fairly esoteric forum) which contains probably the best (or top 3-5) sources of information on that oddity on the whole www. But when it comes to having a go at someone trying to make a connection with someone who connected in the past with a dead parent, it's inhumane and frankly quite sociopathic to jump in with criticisms of reviving old threads. Are you ******* mentally ill?