Benchwayze
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big soft moose":39ye7kjl said:Digit":39ye7kjl said:To be honest I suspect that winning ten Mill is probably the worst thing that could happen to most of us, we would lose some of the incentives that drive us, that make us what we are,
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imo those that are happiest after winning are those who dont change their lives dramatically
Ive got a job i like (most of the time), workmates i get on with, a missus i love who loves me back, good mates who i see from time to time... why would i want to change ? - The ideal life is the one ive got, just with more financial security.
if i won ten mil , i'd buy a nice house (with a three car garage workshop natch) fit out the shop with top end kit, buy a nice car each for me and swimbo , buy my old dear a decent pention and do up her house, bank the rest and carry on my life as i am.
Proper order Moose.
But I have an acquaintance whose Mother won 4 mill. His folks gave him the house they lived in and an 'allowance'. They moved to an upmarket area; where they were 'tolerated'. So their life changed.
The chap didn't change, but his 'friends' became spongers and it took two foreign cruises, with him footing the bill, to make him see it.
In the end, he woke up and moved out of the area, cutting himself off.
He started a business, and I am pleased to say it's successful, but he had to make a new circle of friends and a lot of changes. Not always easy.
Of course I would accept the winnings; but I might be tempted to keep it very quiet!
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