Sorry, this was not a direct reference to the particular housewife or your post specifically. More a general principle about the responsibilty for the actions.I meant "you" in a general sense, not saying you were suggesting it. If you see what I mean.
No need to apologise - no offence taken or anything - it might just be my matter-of-fact writing style when dealing with things such as this. Removing emotion as much as possible is important. Doesn't mean one can't be assertive, though. All good, mate