I think I am following what you said. One, flex pipe is lousy for dust collectors. The coils reduce your air flow a lot. If you do use the flex pipe, run rigid pipe to the machine, and then use short sections of flex pipe to hook up to the machine, and get the heavy duty type. The cloths dryer type will collapse, as can the thin metal duct pipe used for home heating systems. The size is determined by whatever size port there is on your collector. Run that size to your machine, and then step it down if you need to, or fix the port on your machine to match the size of your hose/pipes, and you will get better air flow. I know there is one book out there about dust collecting in your wood shop, but can't remember the author.
There has been a lot of debate about grounding your collection lines. There is some static build up, more with plastic than with metal. Most of what I have read is that there isn't enough build up to generate a big enough spark that can start a fire. I used metal duct work for mine, and it is grounded to the machine. I asked some of the installers of those centralized home vacuum systems if they had to ground their lines and they had no idea of what I was talking about, and all of those systems use plastic ductwork.
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