Steve Maskery
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El Barto":3kmsfytc said:Steve Maskery":3kmsfytc said:My Dad was a cabinet maker and did everything he could to dissuade us from going down the same path. He threatened to cut our hands off, actually.
Why'd he do that? (genuine question)
My dad was not well-paid. After WW2 he spent some time in a cabinet-makers shop. Somewhere there is a picture of him carrying a wardrobe over his head. I think the point was that it was made of very thin ply! After a while trying to be self-employed (he was never a businessman) he took a job in a psychiatric hospital and that is all I remember of his working life, as he started before I was born. It was hourly paid, not as well-paid as similar manual trades, but secure. He was there 29 years.
But the low pay was not something he wanted for us. I remember mum having to wait until he came home with his pay packet so she could go up to the shop and buy some sausages. He wanted us to go and get a better job. I was the first to go to university (a common thing for people of my age, of course).
We never got any career advice at school, it was just a factory for producing university students, really, but that was seen as good. Now that I am at the end of my working life with no career at all, I'm not so sure it was! I have made a lot of very poor decisions in my life and now I am reaping the harvest of that, unfortunately.
Dad died 20 years ago. I had just made my dining chairs and I took one into hospital to show him. I think it pleased him, even though it was nothing like he had ever seen, let alone made.
So dad's threat was because he wanted something better for us. I'm afraid that I think I've let him down.