As a total amateur/DIYer I’ve had to learn what little I know from places like here, Reddit, and YouTube (not the greatest of resources). My attitude is that “you don’t know what you don’t know” so although I could feel like I know what safe practices are, it could just be a case of ignorance is bliss, and that gap in my knowledge could result in a gap in fingers.
That is excellent self awareness.
Until you experience the "bang" when a tablesaw grabs something and spits it out faster than you can see, I don't think you ever quite appreciate the risk.
The priority then is to survive the experience without damage.
I confess, I used to think I was being safe, keeping fingers back from the blade, keeping a hand hooked around a fence while feeding so that I was anchored against a potential kickback but I've seen enough videos etc now to realise that I really wasn't being safe enough.
Hands can be pulled a long way during a kickback and in unexpected directions. Things like sheet material riding up the back of the blade, rotating and being propelled sideways as the teeth work like a high speed feed roller.
Chap got his hands pulled in and cut even though he was over a foot away to the side of the blade totally out of what anyone inexperienced would think of as the line of fire. He just had his hands on the surface of the sheet...
Looking at that one, if he had had a crown guard set low enough to stop the board getting on top of the teeth, he'd have been OK.
Complacency is one of the things that catches us out. We'll all last a little longer thanks to threads like this shaking us up from time to time.
Nowadays I'm with Jacob and others here. I've come to rate the two push stick method. Hands well away.
Most of my sticks are just straight offcuts from ripping,
most importantly they're more like 2 feet long, 30cm is nowhere near enough for my tablesaw.
Pop a notch in the front end if it needs it and do knock off the edges and round the back because if the stick gets kicked back at you, it's quite a slap in the hand and corners and edges hurt.