Puggers
Established Member
We’re going through final drawings preparation at the moment; nothing out of keeping with the type of property or village but simply to make our home more internally usable.
When we were going through the beauty parade to chose one of three architects recommended to us, the first one sat down and before we’d even outlined what we’d like said “I can tell you now you’ll get objections when the plans go in”.
Being new to the village I asked why and was told with a shrug that some will object for the sake of it and the primary reason seemed to be they simply didn’t like change to an area where they’d lived for 30+ years.
He added that the planners rarely took notice and recognised spurious or vexatious objections but what it did do was put in my mind to go on a charm offensive with our neighbours and mention our intentions before sharing the fuller plans.
I think on the basis of courtesy this helps as there could be disruption to them when there are deliveries or the work is underway plus helps ease any issues if they arise and where you may need their help although I appreciate your neighbour isn’t actually there full time.
Sadly, we can’t expect everyone to be of the same mind as us and we all have to try and get along (sometimes through gritted teeth) but I certainly share your frustration and hope it’s resolved soon. I suspect as others are encouragingly saying, you’ll be ok and if there are stumbling blocks, there are normally solutions and compromises.
When we were going through the beauty parade to chose one of three architects recommended to us, the first one sat down and before we’d even outlined what we’d like said “I can tell you now you’ll get objections when the plans go in”.
Being new to the village I asked why and was told with a shrug that some will object for the sake of it and the primary reason seemed to be they simply didn’t like change to an area where they’d lived for 30+ years.
He added that the planners rarely took notice and recognised spurious or vexatious objections but what it did do was put in my mind to go on a charm offensive with our neighbours and mention our intentions before sharing the fuller plans.
I think on the basis of courtesy this helps as there could be disruption to them when there are deliveries or the work is underway plus helps ease any issues if they arise and where you may need their help although I appreciate your neighbour isn’t actually there full time.
Sadly, we can’t expect everyone to be of the same mind as us and we all have to try and get along (sometimes through gritted teeth) but I certainly share your frustration and hope it’s resolved soon. I suspect as others are encouragingly saying, you’ll be ok and if there are stumbling blocks, there are normally solutions and compromises.