RogerS
Established Member
Shortly after buying our cottage, the next door neighbour mentioned in passing that they'd like to trim down the top of the hedge between us, and that whenever they'd tried pruning it in the past the little old lady who owned the cottage before us would rush out and say 'what are you doing...don't really like that etc etc'. Being the reasonable chap that I am I said it sounded like a good idea and that me and Barry (her husband) should get together sometime in the future and do it together. Heard no more about it.
Arrived at the cottage this morning to find the drive barricaded with trees and branches. Tree surgeons at work...virtually destroyed hedge row and trees that screened us from next door, broken original flagstone wall copings. I was spitting feathers. The tree surgeon told me that he'd asked them next door if they'd spoken to me about doing the work and I said no...not at all. We'd talked about trimming and pruning of the front hedge and not wholesale destruction of the entire border.
Anyway, chummy from next door came back from work in response to the steam coming out of my ears...first time I've met him since we bought the place...very apologetic dee dah dee dah....thought his wife had squared it all away. etc etc. and then...and then he said something that made me almost go apoplectic. It's our bloody hedge!!!! So even if there had been a misunderstanding there was a little bit called dialogue missing as to how much and when.
Forum rules prevent me posting what I was really thinking. The fact that we have to live next door to them also precluded me from saying to him what I really thought about his wife.
Arrived at the cottage this morning to find the drive barricaded with trees and branches. Tree surgeons at work...virtually destroyed hedge row and trees that screened us from next door, broken original flagstone wall copings. I was spitting feathers. The tree surgeon told me that he'd asked them next door if they'd spoken to me about doing the work and I said no...not at all. We'd talked about trimming and pruning of the front hedge and not wholesale destruction of the entire border.
Anyway, chummy from next door came back from work in response to the steam coming out of my ears...first time I've met him since we bought the place...very apologetic dee dah dee dah....thought his wife had squared it all away. etc etc. and then...and then he said something that made me almost go apoplectic. It's our bloody hedge!!!! So even if there had been a misunderstanding there was a little bit called dialogue missing as to how much and when.
Forum rules prevent me posting what I was really thinking. The fact that we have to live next door to them also precluded me from saying to him what I really thought about his wife.