Leaving the gender politics dog-whistle to one side, what you've posted simply isn't true. If someone steps out into the road without due care and attention, and there was no reasonable way you could have avoided hitting them, then you cannot be found guilty. However, if you are driving in an area where you reasonably believe that pedestrians will leap into the path of your car without giving any prior indication then you should be reducing your speed, and as an advanced driver you must be well aware of that.
If you genuinely feel that you can't drive along the road you've mentioned safely and without undue risk to the pedestrians in the area then you have a duty of care to avoid that road - as an advanced driver you should know not to take risks you cannot manage. Out of interest do you have the accident stats for that road?
Your proposed bet with Jacob is ridiculous and counter to all good defensive driving strategies - you are demanding that he drive unsafely by counting pedestrians rather than carrying out correct observation and control.
Nope, I was merely pointing out that my previous point about not being able to give attention to every.single.pedestrian was entirely valid for the very reasons you are pointing out - to whit "I'm too busy driving" - so him saying I should no longer drive on the roads, because I cannot give 100% attention to every.single.pedestrian is utterly irrational, and exactly counter to safe driving as you state.
as to the rest - yes of course, I do and I do.
Regarding "cannot be found guilty" for it - well I have a previous court case and an overheard statement from a policeman saying "we're going to make an example of him" to the assembled witnesses for the prosecution outside the court room (heard by my friend while I was inside), begs to differ. All the witnesses had clearly been coached and when I asked for an extention for the case being heard that day because my solicitor did not turn up, I was refused, despite the prosecution having had THREE and delayed the case for TWO YEARS; so I was forced to defend myself in court, against what I found out later to be an extremely biased police officer and coached witnesses.
It wasnt until years later I found out all of that was grounds for a mistrial and have the whole thing thrown out and the hefty £1500 fine (1997) repaid to me.
Without dashcam footage it's your word against thiers and I have absolutely zero faith in the honesty or "justice" or the legal system, based on that and one other case brought against me 35 years ago with police lying in court about my carrying a fishing fillet knife I had just got from a friends whom had sharpened it for me (long before I knew how); some curtain twitcher had seen him giving it to me (in a scabbard), called the police and then the police claimed I had resisted arrest (I hadn't but they were plain clothed and had not initially identified themselves and it was after 5pm in december) and I was going to stab someone with it, they didn't say who or where or why, but merely that "I would" based on no more evidence than carrying a knife automatically means I must be going to stab someone (remember this was 35 years ago long before the rise in knife crime), and I with no prior police contact of any kind, I was fresh out of boarding school and lived right near the River Mole which has good fishing. Even with a statement given by my friend, that he had sharpened the knofe and regularly went fishing with me, oh and that I had a licence to fish in a private lake nearby was all dismissed as not relevant, they still pursued the case to a court hearing, which was summarily dismissed after all statements had been made in about 2 minutes flat - but it got that far (and I got an absolute beating from my father for "bringing the family name into disrepute").
Don't put your faith in the legal system to be true to justice or "fairness" it's a complete crapshoot and now at least the police as a group of people are finally being seen and
proven to be just as fallible as everyone else. I don't hate the institution, actually thought about joining myself after my own personal childhood history, but I'm also very aware of the often overlooked, sometimes dangerous foibles of people in it.
No idea of the accident stats, but any stats dated more than a week or two would be invalid anyway because the new code alteration giving pedestrians right of way regardless has only just come into effect.
Just to make sure for those in any doubt, I am not and never would advocate dangerous or even careless driving, I don't drink ANY alcohol when driving, and I'm always the designated driver when with other people, mostly because my personal tolerance for alcohol is low, always has been. I rarely drive over 70 or even 67, because the time saved even over a couple hundred mile journey is a LOT less than most people realise - 5 minutes to be precise and the cost saved in diesel is noticable, roughly 10 MPG for my car.
I've made my viewpoint clear and frankly anyone who even slightly suggests that pedestrians should not have to apply personal responsibility and awareness while near a road is someone to avoid.