Brandlin":1vkbot4d said:
I've snipped your quote purely to save the readers from double sized wall of text.
My reply was not a /rant or a "toys out of the pram" reaction. I rarely have them, here anyway, because most posters are adults and don't say things that deserve a verbal spanking, but when I do, you can be assured it looks very different than my post you replied to.
Your reply to mine implied I was insulting, belittling and rude - can you show me where exactly, and I mean actual insults or belittling wording, rather than implying I'm doing it because you're not happy with my chosen phraseology.
Could I have stated it better? Sure, but this is a post on a forum, not something I'm writing that I know will get mass attention (I write elsewhere) and by readers where written english is not their first language. Do I think a post on a forum requires multiple proofreading and editing passes to remove any personal overtones I may feel on a given subject?
An EMPHATIC no, because forum posts are ALL ABOUT opinions, and how they are worded is part of that flavor. If you aren't comfortable with reading something that clearly carries the writers personal flavor with it I suggest you move on, an open forum format for discussion isn't for you.
I'm not about to sanitise how I write, or spend the time doing so, even had I the inclination, purely so that others feel more comfortable.
Most of the time it's not even necessary because the topics posted are as benign as paint drying, but when the residents get rowdy, the passion shines through, and it's that passion that brings us all here in the first place.
You have also assumed I know not of what I speak - I remarked on the spacing and you suggested I could not tell if it was the new site design or settings on my browser.
I know it's the site and not the browser, because I use two different browsers for different things, the reason is complicated and irrelevant, but necessary. I checked the site on both, it looked the same.
Ok I admit my wording regarding the autofilter of disliked posts was quite heavy, but then automatic censorship based on "likes / dislikes" from the readers has NO PLACE in a forum like this - or anywhere to be frank, because the mechanic behind it is one of personal opinion. I moderate on two gaming forums and used to write frequently on a third and I can tell you that personal opinion and bias is a topic best stepped around with light feet and giving the readers of a post the ability to force it into censorship is a sure way to p.... posters off and give them a reason to go elsewhere.
I can tell you from four years of experience of this particular forum that some threads have become quite the fracas without adding the insult of a post being censored (auto hidden) because of a dissenting viewpoint..... Sharpening *ducks* being the first to come to mind.
I don't think this function needs to be "reviewed" - I think it should never have been turned on in the first place, and removed the moment it became known.
It's the forum equivalent of "LA LA LA LA LA LA I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!!" and in my 19 years of exposure to the internet, I've never seen it used in a forum until now - not even on some forums that allow aggressive language and topics.
Allowing the residents to self moderate is just asking for trouble.
You have also said all the other posters have
complained (bold, underlined as per yours). A statement made using words and a tone you would not, is not a defacto complaint, merely; a statement made using words and a tone that you would not, and unless you quizzed each poster for clarification, is merely your opinion.
Just like everyone elses.
PS. this reply is not /rant or "toys out of the pram" compliant either, and you do not know me anywhere near enough to claim otherwise, so please don't.
PPS - am I reading this right? Are you suggesting I block you because of your reply? I'm an adult, not five years old.
PPPS - this is me being civil - I know there are some special snowflakes in the world who think everything short of licking thier ar... isn't being civil, but this is how civil looks for the majority of the rest of us non snowflakes.