chippy1970":238p0se5 said:
Jacob, she wouldn't I've got lots of good places near me im right near the Thames which has the Thames path. She just never wants to do anything, maybe if she lost weight and got fitter then she might change.
If its ever anything physical then me and the boys have to go on our own. Seems quite sad really now I come to think of it but I've got used to it.
If it's too much trouble to get the bike out the shed and ride it (free exercise) then I doubt very much if she will use an exercise bike, there must be thousands of these exercise machines sitting in peoples houses which are never ever used, seemed like a good idea at the time, if people are trying to make exercise easy then it is of no benefit.
Weight watchers, where she can meet like-minded people and free exercise (walking or climbing the stairs one step at a time for 15 minutes) if she is unfit then she won't last five minutes on the bike and it will soon be forgotten.
She must be praised or rewarded (clothes or some such treat) for every few pounds she loses, make her feel good about herself, make her feel proud of herself, weekend away, hair do, whatever.
You have to help too, don't take no for an answer when you go out on your own with the boys, embarrass her into coming out, tell her the boys are sad she wont come with you, and when you get her out, have some fun and make her want to do it again, tell her how much you liked her being out with you.
The bike on it's own won't work.
Best of luck.
Andy