Personally, I feel that you should be able to edit / delete anything you have created. There can be a multitude of reasons, but, in the end if you can’t you have in effect given any content you’ve created to the site. For example I recall a chap you used to post about his superb intarsia work that he created. Unfortunately, his designs started to be copied and detract from his work, which was commissions. He deleted all his photos of the intarsia which is understandable. Equally, in the heat of the moment people say things they later regret or may impact their life if it continues to be online. These are extremes, but highlight why having control of your online presence is important.
A couple of rather frank observations on these points - as a forum member by the way, mods aren't involved in the ownership of the site and the owners make these sort of policy decisions.
The minute you post something on the internet, you've effectively given away control of it. All forums, facebook, instagram, youtube, yada yada all demand the right to do whatever they want with anything you post in return for providing the platform for you to share it. Once up, anyone can copy it so you'll never get control of it back. You've said it in public and don't get to take it back.
I don't think you're wrong, but I don't think it's a realistic expectation.
Personally I don't think that UKW is any worse, and in practice better, than FB, youtube, etc - some of which I refuse to engage with.
The intarsia chap you describe is no different to anyone sharing here. He just learnt a stiff lesson about the way the internet works.
Comments made in the heat of the moment :
Perhaps again the lesson needs to be learnt to
engage brain before opening mouth (keyboard).
That's what an apology is for. You err in public so you should apologise in public, When I was a kid, the adults at least tried to teach me some manners. I have little sympathy for bad manners but I would have EVERY sympathy with someone who reported their own post, admitted they made a mistake and asked for it to be deleted if they couldn't do so themselves.
BUT
We all need to express our opinions in a forthright manner from time to time. That's kind of what off topic 2 is for. Access being restricted to contributing members, it is not open to indexing by the search engines and web crawlers (as I understand it). It's a little more private than having a debate in front of millions on prime time TV
Hope this helps....